2021 = 1950 for how we raise and treat men.

There are green shoots as you show, but all it takes is for a toxic culture based set of men to find those folks and crush them.

How does one beat back violence without being violent?

That is the conundrum, men on average because of a long history will be treated as the enemy. It is a horrific feeling thinking ok I am fighting the enemy, deemed an enemy by women and when one looks in the mirror in the morning I am the enemy.

But one can fight out of the box and hell, I have but the stigma is always there.

It is horrific, Elle, but I do see some rays of sunshine, but in some ways for men within pools of other men the 2020s still is like the 1980s and 1990s.