Agree with the entire article ...

My view from the cheap seats is this.

If no discussion has been made, there is no dominance or alpha (or conversely submissive and beta) [period].

There is assertive and consent oriented leadership.

What I have found is the hardest, is trying to carve out enough space and time and energy to build up the reserves "in me" to have the juice to go-go-go.

That is after the 1/2's or more is done in the relationship department.

glitter shrapnel .... so love that ....