Agreed. That is why I left it open-ended.

If I knew the answer, man ... time to go buy some lottery tickets!

The first battle is the battle within the mind. Defeat those demons, and then from there you can have the space, time, and energy to go for the light!

You got it. No person is guaranteed another lover or partner in this life, but one can guarantee loving themselves fully and being happy in their own skin and soul.

For we are all born alone, and will die alone.