Relax. Be yourself. Be honest about how you feel. A good man won’t jerk you around or disrespect you, regardless of how soon you sleep with him. A man who’s ready for love won’t push you away when you express how you feel.
All of this. I believe if women start taking the view of "implying" authenticity and real confidence (and not the term big dick energy) are what is guaranteed to bring them as much sex and love as they can handle.
It also means if one sees two guys at a bar and they are being decent and one is helping the other guy out with no strings. Then approach and say you two seem like good people .. wanna dance or drink?
Maybe things can be turned around