All of this:
I am a natural switch, so I know *exactly* how a submissive feels. I also know how to provide the service because the submissive whispers to the dominant in my ear to take my partner to the devils cliff edge and holds her by her hair.
See, I know what getting violated is. I know the pain and the trauma and what is required in the after care.
I won't break a person unless they specifically want me to, and it will follow the path into the dark tarpit. When their nose dips underneath for that brief second I lift them out 100% and hug them.
Some will say I don't want pain. Well, guess what my love, you won't feel pain, but I will tie you down and after you orgasm. I won't stop. Yes you know how sensitive a woman gets after a mind blowing orgasm.
I will use pleasure as my tool. I want to see you drool, and become a blubbering mess. I want to see tears and you keep saying no no no ... because no is not the consent safe word today ..... patriarchy is.
I want to see you handle a full hour of this, and when you are a puddle mess on the bed. I will untie you and lift you, wash you, and snuggle you with the after care while you sleep.
But the minute the word of "NO (or patriarchy)" comes out, I stop and respect your boundaries and integrity, and love you fierce.
Meanwhile those that scoff at those that are kinky have no issue with plain assault and then call their version of love superior to those that are "freaks".
Live freaky and consensually!