And that is what I respect so much about you! You are also correct working on feminist ideas, views, and everything is a lot of work, but it is rewarding (especially for men)
Questioning everything is a feminist activity in which people if they look at equality needs to review everything including their bias.
I haven't read the article or comment (been super busy with life) and also processing the shit fest for women and politics being in a red state.
My trek through this is not everyone hits a home run and mistakes are made the point is how does one grow.
In a utopia world we all can process this and the reflections of the day become simplistic and more complex ones get worked on.
Then those topics which may even include some male viewed ones via equality and what not be talked about ...
But without reading it (the article) .... where was the father is a great comment, since you know highly traditional focused folks pontificated about the importance of fathers and sons and yet "mummy" has to do the disciplining ...