As a person if I had a partner who was the most awesome human being by having and raising a child, and she had stretch marks.

If she was subconscious about it, I would do everything I could to make sure she felt comfortable with her body. I would kiss each one an try to think of something good about her that is real.

The key thing men need to understand that is if you say you love women you show it. You empower the woman to fight her confidence demons, and for those markers which can't be removed, you love on them and show her that because of those things you love her even more.

If you can't do it ... you don't deserve to mate with a woman, because you are not a "real" man.

Scarlett it is under editor review … but this is what a man should think about .

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.