Beautifully crafted with a depth that just saws wow ....

I am not single, but I read about this stuff so I can try to be a better person in relationships "and" also attempt to support friends and writers and people in between with empathy.

Life is short ... so if I am still kicking it around the planet, after my mourning period in my relationship (whether divorce or widow), I want to be a few steps ahead as a (hu)man being and also be there for others so maybe I can win at love again.

I just don't get but I do ... why people truly treat people so poorly in the arena of intimacy. One can save the cantankerous shit fest for politics ... but in love and care?

As a man how can you say you love another woman or man or transgender person if you put them down and use them?

The answer is you never loved them ... you only love yourself and you are doing it poorly.

Great article as always!