Because they have no concept of how insidious the damage from assault in intimacy and intimate areas is to the psyche.
This month (from my therapist pushing me), I have been unpacking my rape and the emotions and letting the pain out.
Shit is dark to the point in my mind to the point, that where people are screaming about politics and COVID and all of that, I keep thinking that your worst scenario happening IRL, would be like a bright sunny Texas day in summer.
My response to a guy like that is has it happened to you? If no, listen and support and the only words that should be uttered is ...
How can I help.
That is it.