Being a rarer guy who only came from prone masturbation (or PIV), I would take my time with my partner but if I kept it short .... it would be to then use my cock for a while. One of the side effects of prone masturbators was they take a long time to orgasm from PIV.

I would go at it a while and if she came (super) I win, if she didn't that was ok ... I would pull out and go back down.

Find what works for you as a guy, learn, grow, and talk to your partners and do.

If I cared for a woman and we hadn't been going out for long ... I would usually "mouth" I love you and her first name with my tongue on her clit.

I would then smile on the inside.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.