Between my partner who may like to be talked to that way ... oh yeah.
You want to be treated like a whore or slut and the safe word is on ... game on woman.
If you like risk in public, I will make sure to talk loud enough for an attractive partner to maybe hear ...
In the bedroom .. the use of toys "totally".
So sure thing ... it is a-ok to not want to be put on a pedestal.
That doesn't mean those that like to be worshipped like a goddess aren't good either. It all comes down to the dynamism of the partner in sex and role play and fun. Not everyone can do it, some folks can either be the leader or the follower.
Watch out for those that can dance the dance either way, because well life is about experiencing as much as one can.
As for those that have trauma and power play has no place for it .... you know what ... that is ok too.
Intimacy can be a place where it is nothing but love and other sexy fun too ....
There should be no shame in the bedroom, only pure joy, orgasms as many as one can pick off the orgasm tree, and love and care for your partner(s).
To each their own.
As for me I can dance whatever dance excites my partner. I have a plethora of kinks to play with and some of them can be quite masochistic and others quite loving and fun (think sensation play of the good kind).
The key thing is consent always, set safewords and guidelines and most importantly talk and respect one another ... once that is done ... throw down as hard as you can ....