Bravo! I am glad to hear this is happening.
My food for thought is this:
For guys that are hurt, think about what made her so attractive to feed the thirst.
We are all hurting, damaged, and even folks in relationships are lonely too. It happens as it is the human condition.
As for guys that are authentic and vulnerable and feel unpopular with the guys, don't worry. They aren't guys you want to be around "at all".
If you are open and honest and want to be and love women, and you are found in the cross hairs of strong women, let me tell you.
No one likes weak tea, when you sip and go holy fuck wow and they see it ...
Let's just say let authentic masculine empowerment begin.