But it is actually everything.
The key thing in a heterosexual dance like this is does the man follow through after the sex and the two year hormonal dance and
Be comfortable with his heart, soul, and sexuality (i.e. my defined glass boy) in totality with the woman he loves and is intimate with.
This is everything to complete the dance of safety and fun for each sex into building the child called a relationship.
Let's hope we as as society fix this sooner then later.