Carrying the burden of pain is a horrible experience (trust me I get it), and the harder part I believe in life is when women shame and belittle women about the travesties of men.
If I take the example of my wife, she has only been with me for her dating time so she will never fully appreciate the hellscape that women talk too. e.g. I catch her make comments about the slut or whore that makes my head shake.
So on the plus side she has been able to surive with the gilded patriarchal protection of conservatism and my knowledge of men and giving her the peace and the fact she is an introvert (gee I must have a type).
My favorite go to comment added to your fantastic article of ugh ...
"1" in "4" women have been assaulted
"1" in "6" men have been assaulted
Beware of the people that gaslight around the 4 and 6, and shame the 1.
I am sorry that my gender did the nasty to your boundaries over and over, I wish you peace and joy in your life. If not, you can show the guys your awesome articles on castration and say ... see what I like :D to do to adult males like you ...