Christ … I have seen the ads and what not but the dumpster dive into detail that you had to do to show and explain this makes me need to take a shower to wipe off the toxins of words deposited upon my eyes. (how you were able to draft a nice and balanced response speaks volume of you as a person).
Why can’t people say I want a partner the meets and exceeds my ability to have a partner in life with no walls and openness and honesty? i.e. Ride-or-die, or chill-and-bond, etc