CIS male here, thank you for being the bridge for women to understand while there is privilege there are deep dark sink holes on the green painted gravel and concrete on the male side of life.
It is the hard part to grasp. The knowledge you are the threat by default. You have literally no one of the same gender to talk too. You are presumed to only have two emotions or else you obviously aren’t a man.
Welcome to the Patriarchy, which epically sucks.
Here is a fun fact in the USA. CIS boys at 18 have to sign up for the Selective Service or else they become felons. As such, a rule you will also understand is that you are 100% disposable by societal standards.
You seem like an awesome guy who I would love to have drinks and isle chit chat and if we truly jelled one on one … be in each other’s tribe.