CIS White Male, Pansexual.

My view is destroy binary gender thinking, embrace infinite gender possibilities.

My first sharing what I figured out was 2020/06/13, with someone I trusted (not family or my wife but someone that truly helped me).

The capstone moment for me came through (this was based in therapy mind you) was when a trans gendered porn start cut her hair into a very boyish look. Some guys went crazy and ripped her apart, and I stood and looked and realized …. still find her very attractive, her gender doesn’t apply. It is the person and her spirits (masculine and feminine) that says yeah …. if I was single and she was at a bar I hope I can be interesting enough and it doesn’t matter if she is intact still as it is her body and her choice.

So my view came into focus … and life is good.