Confidence with curves > Flat personality and bodily perfection.
As a man, when I see what society sees as "imperfect" makes me turn into hard core desire that is associated with the female body perfection.
Seeing the look in her eyes saying "I did this?" Is the most beautiful thing ever.
For those that dream of body positivity with society approved looks, all I can say is make the core exercise being intimacy and sex where that woman has her toes curl daily. Feels relaxed feeling multiple times a day, and make sex games around hitting dietary and exercise goals.
E.g. Role Reversal play where the woman sits with the man and takes a marker to his body and says, we need you to improve here and here. Do this and you can be the patriarchal stud for a night, other wise it is time to eat at the Y :)
Women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes, and as a man I have learned seeing a liberated and confident woman has no words to describe it.