If one believes in yin and yang, and conversely if women given biological imperatives host and birth life and have the ability to master and transform it with direcrt contact and feeling.

Then men are the born with the opposite of wielding and having to manage death and anger as their lives are devoid of being able to truly feel life.

Do note I am not saying women aren’t and can’t be the masters of death either, however, men have zero such capacity to bear life (via biological imperatives).

Lacking that ability allows men for better or worse to execute the most heinous of evils and have a unique ability to go deep down that dark rabbit hole.

It is obviously all perspective, and for what happened to you I definitely agree with your assessment, and trust and believe you on your path implicitly and explicit.

My warning is for when you need to question yourself by yourself.

I have put animals down and I nearly killed a rapist with my bare hands. I know raw anger and hate and darkness, and when we put animals down I have the ability to flip a mental switch but it comes at a cost …. For me I never want to go there …. Now you examples obviously are with words and injustice and I am right behind you 100%.

The thing is hate comes from the same dark well … so be careful and of course drink and do …. Just beware.

I lost decades of my life processing it. You shouldn’t live in fear either which is hate evil partner …..

I share these observations not to tone police either … just as a warning sign. On the plus side, too … your victories and use also maybe a good education for boys and men in dealing with it too.

So who knows … be well and live strong.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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