Dealing with my trauma and working through all of the issues of masculinity, one thing I realized as a CIS white male.

I have found several women who are not biologically aligned nor fit the traditional beyond super attractive to me. To the point if my current relationship ended, I would actively look for trans-women to date.

It was figuring out that every human being has a masculine and feminine spirit. The key is to finding a person and friends that compliment where you missing your important puzzle pieces.

This means learning to embrace both spirits.

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Alan Tegel

Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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