Dealing with my trauma and working through all of the issues of masculinity, one thing I realized as a CIS white male.
I have found several women who are not biologically aligned nor fit the traditional beyond super attractive to me. To the point if my current relationship ended, I would actively look for trans-women to date.
It was figuring out that every human being has a masculine and feminine spirit. The key is to finding a person and friends that compliment where you missing your important puzzle pieces.
This means learning to embrace both spirits.