Does one desire shallow high quantity relationships or deeper high quality relationships?

Duh right!

The reality is there will be a leveling of high quality and low quality people, and like kinds will flow towards each other, which is what should happen.

If the deeper relationships are not in a segment of the male populations priority, then it is their choice and free will to live the shallow life. Does it make them lazy? To some folks perspectives sure it is. To others it is their life, and one can choose to have it or not.

Access to equality allows people the choice, which means folks can go and for a pursuit of happiness. Folks also need to realize, there are things such as starter relationships where people will fail, and move one. There are millions of people to choose from, and if one is smart the learn and grow (hopefully not at the expense of others).

So has it made things worse for low value/quality men? Sure! Has it made it better for high value and quality women? Sure!

Does the same thing apply flipping roles? Definitely!

But the one thing that will stand as time moves on is that those folks that overly generalize a gender will be deemed low quality, even if they have a lot of accomplishments, money, or "life experience".

As it should be.


Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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