Exactly ... One of the best goals IMO is that you use toys and play together, and make the female partner so wet, that she is like wow ... no lube required!

There is a fun toy I saw where a woman can hump two vibrating lumps to get off. Picture taking pillows between the legs and the side of the guy and putting it on his leg and humping his leg while kissing.

If someone feels threatened with that well ... get therapy!

Snicker, beware of the guy that says hey baby ... lets add to your toy collection and play lots!