Exactly. If a guy is so charged up, after the date is concluded and not in a pouty way ... Go home and relieve yourself.
It is that simple, but as an older guy do realize this. As you age tapping out will reduce your overall desire for her and others as you repeat it.
The irony of all of this is over the years in heteronormative relationships based upon media articles and society it seems quite a few women have more blue vulvas in relationships as the bedrooms go dead.
I have a belief this will be the seedy unspoken thing in our society as equality spreads farther and deeper (as it should mind you). The most precious and rare thing will be sustainable male desire.