Exactly. If a guy is so charged up, after the date is concluded and not in a pouty way ... Go home and relieve yourself.

It is that simple, but as an older guy do realize this. As you age tapping out will reduce your overall desire for her and others as you repeat it.

The irony of all of this is over the years in heteronormative relationships based upon media articles and society it seems quite a few women have more blue vulvas in relationships as the bedrooms go dead.

I have a belief this will be the seedy unspoken thing in our society as equality spreads farther and deeper (as it should mind you). The most precious and rare thing will be sustainable male desire.

--

--

--

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

Love podcasts or audiobooks? Learn on the go with our new app.

Get the Medium app

A button that says 'Download on the App Store', and if clicked it will lead you to the iOS App store
A button that says 'Get it on, Google Play', and if clicked it will lead you to the Google Play store
Alan Tegel

Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

More from Medium

Fu Manchu, Foo Man Choo, Man Chew Food

Black Swan theory explained: what is a Black Swan event?

Rape, Restraining Orders, Resilience and a Little Girl Caught in the Crossfire

Dear Joe Biden- A Millennial on Loan Forgiveness