Exactly. If I felt too much pressure and there was an awkward silence of tenseness. I pulled out always.

Go back down on her, kiss her pay attention to her breasts or other body parts etc.

Or ... if it wasn't happening "stop".

Then talk. No matter how horny you are, bucket up that desire and either save it for her for later ... or ... move on to mutual masturbation. If one is going home, wait until you get home and get off then.

Hopefully, then talking will occur. My view from the cheap seats is considerable talking around intimacy is to be had (if she has medical issues and there is nothing wrong with that at all).

Sex is more then PIV, and hopefully those with limitations (nothing wrong with that) are very open to everything in the sexual menu of life, with consent nothing is impossible.

--

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

Love podcasts or audiobooks? Learn on the go with our new app.

Get the Medium app

A button that says 'Download on the App Store', and if clicked it will lead you to the iOS App store
A button that says 'Get it on, Google Play', and if clicked it will lead you to the Google Play store
Alan Tegel

Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.