Exactly. If was a suggested editor for this piece I would swap out alpha/beta with provider and nurturer. I provided a response with taints of judgement (ok maybe more then taint), since in reality the folks in this article are very shallow human beings.

What is worse IMO, are articles like this and people like this are posture children for those that want to shove traditional roles down the throats of everyone. They stoke a lot of fear in men who aren't educated in gender ...

On the flip side, it is a litmus test for guys to see how much it triggers them and for what they need to work on.