Exactly, liberated women and women that are fully actualized are what society needs. The real interesting reality is in aggregate women are getting closer and closer to that "1" of actualization, while men are struggling to approach 1/4 or 1/2 a man.
I have no answers for the group, all I know is the first step out of the tarpit was therapy and then becoming a feminist as a man.
From there it has been "a lot" of hard work and reading, and I still have further to go. But fists up and out (for a fist bump not violence) and of course I am wearing a mask ....