Exactly. They are suggestive stories meant to help illuminate topics for those that don't have facts to work towards a better tomorrow. They should not be the "basis" of fact, which now people embrace fully.
I have had thoughts of writing some kind of fictional novel on the premise a man from the current era was slid into a parallel universe or time, when a biological plague hit the male gender. Limiting their ability to reproduce as it is now and culling the population.
Women then had to take a very active role in managing the male sexuality, because the limitations was no longer the eggs in women, but the sperm in men.
So with that side-bar thought, my view is this I would actually embrace a community like this where my goal in a way whether for a single woman or many where I become a warrior of empathy and kindness.
That is my internal side thought to the whole thing, but on the reality of life. I very much agree with what you had to say. If we were in person I would be nodding my head up and down, and then I would say "one more thing Claire".