Exactly. This is how one makes unconditional love. In my travels and interactions, folks that are the repressed are the ones that need constant physical intimacy and attention. Once safe they need to have the mental stimulation and variability to go insanely crazy in love.

When it happens decades of repression are released in the awestruck and amazing ways.

For those that are not repressed, the opposite of those, they need to conserve and ration it and broaden the mental and psychological aspects.

Proust is an amazing guy, and I would have loved to drink with him.

In our modern societies where women have been oppressed for so much and for so long, it is why I have great enjoyment in the erotic things I write about :) You of course can read more about it if you dare :)