Exactly. When I found out about this fun in the 90s in college, the common buzzwords were not in effect.
Wait until you see what it feels like to have a partner that loves a good cream pie, and it is combined with a double barrel vaginal experience (DP in the VJ :) )
I never heard a woman (at the time) howl as hard as she did in that situation. Then when I cleaned her up.
She shook like a rag doll.
It was "beautiful".
The relationship didn't last because of insecurities, taboos, and total lack of communication.
So you called it out big time, trust, communication and lots of consent and respect.
Gen Y/Z has it far better then Gen X had :)