Fantastic advice …. one advice on the porn … it matters what kind and the diversity of it too :) but given the depth and density of men’s thoughts a hyper majority will fit the mold you show 95% of the time :). There are unicorns.

What I so hold hope for honestly though …. the tropish alpha stud that some folks deeply desire is becoming less and less desirable which is pretty cool IMO. I am not saying a woman doesn’t desire that every so often ….. just not all the time.


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