Folks that pontificate simplistic solutions while calling out and assuming fatness to laziness is very very sad and shows how awful and ugly the person is.

I had an athletes body and six pack, now I have a keg. I had to fight real trauma which made me self-medicate with food and booze. Now that part is healthy and I will be working on getting healthy.

If I divorce and am dating and I am lucky to be with a woman I see as my perfect one and she is rubenesque. I would so love to work hard to get my athlete body back. Why? Part of it is me to say FU to the guy that harmed me, but the other one to sit there and look at the person shaming my partner and say.

Her femininity and whole package is far more attractive to get all of this then me ever want to be with you. I would have a little signal too for my partner where she would come over and smack me on the butt or whatever .... so she could say "mine".