For me it was very subtle over the years but always there (think like Chinese water torture). I visit my family for a week every year around Thanksgiving. My sister’s love it since it is Xmas early with Uncle Al.

I stated, you know I don’t mind seeing the kids, I do love them. I also love you two (my parents) and I want to see you first and not get inundated with the children.

My favorite statement when things get tight or whatever is ….. you don’t have kids you don’t understand.

I have a horse farm with >20 horses, 9 cats, and a dog …. I just don’t have the heart to say ….. um what do you think?

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Alan Tegel

Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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