For women that have men that are “anal” on anal, I suggest that before one partakes down the path, that you have the male partner agree that both genders “have” the same part. So anal sex should be a shared responsibility, so as he can understand what it is to receive and be taken in return.
The fun reality is the male P-spot (g-spot equivalent) may make him have a whole new appreciation of full body orgasms, and for the woman with the right toys (and vibrating clips), a woman can learn the enjoyment of taking her partner over the edge while orgasming during the act.