Great advice and great examples. Sadly though in today’s environment while the fear doesn’t come close to the safety issues that women have. Sex is now definitely seen as a privilege which is a good thing, but guys are also seeing it isnt worth the risk since there are other easier and faster ways to get relief via transactional sex methods (think apps).

It is sad, but if there is a cool down and settling of things between the genders for a decade or so it maybe a good thing. The only caveat will be guys will be stuck in the development cycle, which will be a big turnoff for women as the guys that they are around don’t age at the same speed.


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