…men out, especially if they are close to you, if you’ve known them for years, if they’re your bros. It will be tough, but I promise you that initially, you might stand alone, but if you stand your ground, you will garner support. You will garner respect, but most of all you might stop a man murdering another Pinar in the future…
The San B
Great letter and respectful too.
Guys the key is to be kind and not take the bait as the person will project back.
You will stand alone at that moment.
That is ok as you do, you will see others like you and unlike others that will shine out.
Trust me on this, I fought through the hills and valley, and I had literally no one. I did come out far stronger, and what you will find is an understanding of women and conversely what it takes to be a mindfully masculine man, and if you work hard enough you can add sacred.
Remember in the sea of sharks, be the dolphin.