Holy shit ... I just went through a checklist of this in an argument (I mean discussion) that I had over the past 24 hours.

I want to respond, but the I can't because it is "helpful work" that is a double whiplash of are you fucking serious.

Wow .. thank you for this term and call out. It answered a question or three about "the shit in my relationship"

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