I agree this is something I have always wanted my partner (Female) to do to me because I wanted to try to feel how she felt, and also from my gay friends (ally here) they told me the orgasms were mind blowing.

Conversely, I desire her to feel the raw power of being the taker, and with a proper gear and maybe an insertable (like a feeldoe etc) I would love for her to orgasm while in command.

If my current relationship ends, I definitely will be forward with my future partner about this desire and need.