I am a natural switch also; however, in out society I am forced over and over to be the alpha, live as the alpha, and it gets quite tiresome.
Now the fun angle, because I have had some women state it was disgusting to them that I want to be submissive, since that is “not a man”.
Cest la vie.
The really fun thing is though, I know how to really drive a submissive right to the edge (yellow) and make her dangle their and slowly push those boundaries so she is expanding her redlines consensually.
It is fun as hell, but hey isn’t that what supposed to happen in the privacy between two lovers?
What is fucked up IMO, is the brazen and aggressive view on power as shown in pure vanilla life. No wonder there is an orgasm gap with women, and men feel so unfulfilled …
Be well and awesome writing as usual!