I am a natural switch, but I can’t tell you how much joy I have when in the submissive role. The issue I have is my current long-term partner is a woman who believes in the full chasee and patriarchal white knight fantasy 100%.

The funny thing is she is as independent as fuck (she raises and breeds horses) and is as intelligent as hell (her IQ exceeds mine).

That being said, I can be at a loss that she doesn’t see the appeal of harnessing that side of me ….

I wonder if this will continue to be as-is or will it skew to more and more women desiring submission due to having to be the one in charge in society (as equality spreads).

The whole situation perplexes me ….


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