I am looking at it deeper since I agree with her base assumptions. This is why I stated it in the first word. Zero.

Your point is these guys are projecting their own self-worth onto the woman. That I agree with and it falls into the core of her article.

However, there are some adult males that act authentically as men that don't transfer this patriarchal view upon women. If a man acts and thinks clean with appropriate safe sex (presuming consent) is respectful and kind and treats the person the right way and projects other men's filth and projection and trauma on this man without his consent, then there becomes an issue.

An authentic man will actively listen, and be there; however, if a pattern exists and non-consent is still applied then there is an issue.

There is a balance and fine line.

I am also glad to see I am not the only one getting hit with a medium bug of double posts ... wonder what is happening with that?