I am one of the 4% oh goodie I win 😀.

I am an unlucky soul who can check the box on many of the reasons ….

Sexual Trauma, Catholic guilt, masterbation technique, incompatible sexual fantasies, and traditional gender bias by the women I was with.

The plus when I was single I learned to do really good oral, and could last a very long time with penetration.

The problem is I have never orgasmed via oral and could only orgasm via penetration. Through therapy I learned how to use my hand … so I lost a few relationship when women that I didn’t desire them when in reality I desired them in ways they would never understand. You wanna talk about horrors ….. and want to not feel like a man ….

So this article has a lot of good advice and if you need more …. Please get therapy.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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