I am one of the 4% oh goodie I win 😀.
I am an unlucky soul who can check the box on many of the reasons ….
Sexual Trauma, Catholic guilt, masterbation technique, incompatible sexual fantasies, and traditional gender bias by the women I was with.
The plus when I was single I learned to do really good oral, and could last a very long time with penetration.
The problem is I have never orgasmed via oral and could only orgasm via penetration. Through therapy I learned how to use my hand … so I lost a few relationship when women that I didn’t desire them when in reality I desired them in ways they would never understand. You wanna talk about horrors ….. and want to not feel like a man ….
So this article has a lot of good advice and if you need more …. Please get therapy.