Julia E Hubbel I am so glad to see this, you can add a 20 something awesome feminist in Italy to your collection. Along with God(dess) knows how many other women.
My view from a male POV is this, and this is what I work on (albeit from the sexual part).
The reality to me though, I am all-in on the empowerment and having a partner feel full, complete, and safe.
Women do not deserve 1/8th or 1/4 of a man. They don't deserve that 1/2 a man either. You all deserve more than the "shit" show of masculinity that is out there.
You all do matter to me and I hope more men. Hopefully given the last 1/2 of my life I can help grow a pool of guys that learn to work on our own shit so what gets spun out is women that don't have to do emotional labor and have a better chance at life.
Until then ... fight on as you are all amazing to me. Be well, and know you have one guy sitting in the stands saying go Team Julia and Rachel Presser and women.