I am sorry you have this personal trauma in your life, and the fact a person you valued harmed you is despicable.

If Will Smith was that offended, the right answer was to grab the mike away from Chris Rock and state.

"Shame on you. My wife struggles with hair loss due to a disease and you implying she is not feminine about it is disgusting, rude, and tasteless."

Then he could have handed it back, walked back to his seat and offered his wife the ability to leave (if she chose to).

Words fight words. Not fists.

But the fact he was the butt of a joke by two female comedians prior and he did nothing?

So I have a diverse feed in social media (even after walking away from most of it back in 2019.). One black woman stated, Jada did it for show and as a publicity stunt.

We will never know, since he used violence.

Imagine what would have happend if you were the starlet with a shaved head, and I was the husband and I went up and punched Chris Rock in the mouth.

What would have happened then?

This situation is something that can be used to teach "boys" and males the importance of words not fists. The ability to understand that empathy is critical in communicating to people, and for women to understand the importance of partnering up with men who can control their male fragility.

Sadly, Will Smith just lost all rights for the rest of his life as a "cool customer" who went with the flow.

I have no issues with poly or alternative lifestyles, but I do have any issue with violence when it is not warranted.

Another fun one would be, you know I hope they come out with a GI Jane 2, because my wife would kick ass in it, and she is more woman then I can handle and the fact she kicks it with me makes me the luckiest guy in the world.

Instead we get a side show bob view ... on a show where people that are the 1% plus pat themselves on the back. You should see the swag bags they get. I have a close male friend who invited me a bunch to them, but I know he has deep feelings for me and he would "want" something I am not going to give him.

Again, I am sorry you had a shit male in your life who used your aging as a weapon. Salt and pepper hair in a woman is just as sexy as normal hair. See it follows in my rule of not requiring a woman to use makeup or hide her natural beauty.

Now, when called to clean out the shower drain, I will scream out oh no ... there is a huge monster I am slaying in here damn it ..... and run around the house (with it and a paper towel) .... it is coming for you!