I attempt to educate, you project your feelings.

That was the point of the poor person analogy back to you to describe an emotion and feeling that the author feels when she wrote it. It requires a lens of sophistication that if you have privilege you won't see unless you have good active listening skills, empathy, and an ability to process things from a different POV.

Both you and I have privilege in these areas, as we don't know how a black person especially female feels in American society. To tell her to suck it up is gaslighting, and the fact you hand wave away an attempt to educate makes us "see you".

I know Europe I spent considerable time in Germany, Italy and Northern Ireleand. I am highly educated, well traveled, and seen quite a few things (including going to school in inner city Cleveland).

As for tech ...

I wonder how I am getting a RHEL9 AARM64 binary set working on my M1 Max if they are not equal or equivalent?

Hmmm ... or the fact that I can write an awk routine in an ubuntu container on windows 11 arm on an 8cx gen 1 and m1 and have the routines process a billion rows of data within 21 seconds of each other 47 vs 1:08.

Intel x86_64 is no no where equal or equivalent M1 and 8cx are ARM based processors, and with that we are done.

I actually took the time and energy to read your words and process them and think about it, and I also took the time to think about an analogy from your POV to be able to process what she was saying.

You attacked the messenger and used a victim status for response.

I do understand and appreciate your position, as I used to be like you, but I did therapy and worked on me. I suggest you do the same.