I feel you, when I shared my story with my "ex" feminist girlfriend who actually did outreach for women and rape.

When she told me that I couldn't be raped as I was big bad man.

Boom.

I am a feminist now, and I have one person in my past (who isn't my friend) to thank for that.

So I 100% empathizes and sympathize and get 110% how it sucks to not be believed and have it fester in you.

I am glad you are healing and be well!

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.