I get this 100%. Men do equal women in areas of the heart, but men have fewer tools, less companionship, less connection, and less ability to express than women. I hope for Gen Z guys it will be a drastically different experience then BB/X/Y, since most guys only have a screwdriver in a world that requires a 200 piece tool kit in emotions, and now with high standards and low expectations wrapped in zero tolerance views …. to quote a scifi analogy “this won’t end well” …

The even harder part is when a relationship does happen and if you wrap the high intensity of desire along with the need to connect at the heart, it can burn out the woman who might say … can we just fuck and disconnect please this is too much.