I got this comment a few months ago. I keep you around because you make me less angry.

I am learning and working (it is a bit different when you are with a person for a few decades) to try to match it is what she wants and how she needs space view.

Mother (and I mean mother) of all blowouts a few weeks ago. She was at a 11, and she took me from 1 to 10. Aries on the cusp of Taurus and a full blow redheaded welsh Taurus … yeah … words were said.

At one point, she went nuclear .. fine lets get a divorce, and I was like why do you have to go nuclear like that, which of course didn’t help :)

Bang bang bang she went into her office to get some extra horse working clothes, and without saying anything I stated I am going to hug you because now more then every you need this.

I love you and while I am pissed at you I am sorry for any hurtful words that I said and I let go. Things blew over and we started to talk again.

The joys of building a flawed relationship and working on it …..

I am of the belief that the hardest thing a person can do is to be in a monogamous relationships with another and be around 24x7x365 (I work from home as she does too). So much work, but you are right … the best thing to do to fix something (as a guy) is not to do anything at all but support your partner as they process whatever is going on.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.