I have a belief / theory. That romantic novels/movies/tv to women can cause as much damage as porn with me.

The reason why is it sets up the worst expectations and beliefs which no opposite sex partner can achieve (assuming binary and hetero).

The funny thing is … if roles or situations are reversed it can be an excellent thing (presuming traditional and hetero views).

I have lost track of the number of times in relationships when I have heard why can’t it be like this TV episode etc, when I am like … it is a TV show based on no reality.

Think about this (especially now in the time of COVID) …. how many people state OMG look at this reality show and how this couple lives and acts …

bad days ahead …

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.