I have a close friend who is gay and we travelled on mileage runs together.
He pointed this out to me and me being a daft guy never realized it.
I am lucky (per my friends observation since we shared a room but no we didn’t engage in anything) he stated yeah Soo many guys would like to call you daddy and so would I … I said how did you know. He stated dude you are packing in obviously in loose boot cut jeans …
Then he also shared so I knew when I bent over to pick up my wallet that I dropped that our female bartender stopped and gawked the entire time ….
So my share is for guys, having friends that are not straight is very helpful …
Do note: I personally find dick “picks” deplorable. I would only send if my partner specifically asked for them …