I have a horse farm and we do AI work and live breeding :). So lots of sex and birthing happens in my "realm" of the universe.

I don't have kids, but I have been there in the birthing process "a bit".

The thing I try to share/show is guys are truly scared and live in fear when it comes to true intimacy (even me).

It is even worse if a heterosexual couple has very little communication and conversation time.

This is why my silver lining view of being a demisexual type of person benefits, because there is a bunch of talking before any intimacy happens.

If a woman desires (if I was single) a quickie, it won't happen with me. YMMV of course with other guys ...

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.